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Check the nightlife, and you’ll see almost every guy out to pick up girls is drunk or high. If you can do it sober, you give yourself a major competitive advantage.
Do you blaze, drink, or do lines when you go out and hit the club to
chat up girls?
One year ago, William Gupta talked about the truth about taking drugs and hooking up.
After a decade in the Game, I've noticed something striking - almost nobody is sober. When guys learn and practice pick-up, they tend to be drunk, stoned, or both... and a lot of the guys gaming in clubs are, to put it bluntly, doing coke in the bathrooms in order to keep themselves "up" for the long haul of partying and hitting on women until 2 in the morning.
Before you think I'm just being some prude who can't have a good time, let me preface what I'm about to say by mentioning that I struggled with various forms of addiction for a full decade. I've been through the depths of that hell, I know what the demons look and sound like in your head, and I know precisely what kind of blade a man needs to sever them in half and regain his life from the abyss.
Now, before I get into my top 3 reasons to practice pick-up sober, I'll briefly explain why I think so many guys can't seem to perform this art without a little "chemical help" of some type. I believe that the primary reason so many guys do pick-up stoned or drunk... which REALLY became clear once I cleaned up my act and started living the sober life... is that pick-up is scary as hell.
How do you get laid on the first date?
I break this down, with a focus on the three (3) places you should take a girl to make sure she’s as likely to end up in your bed as possible on Date #1.
Here’s the video:
In today’s video, on what I’m calling the ‘half-flake’ (basically, any time you have a date set up with her but she says she has to reschedule or otherwise says she can’t make it but still wants to see you), I cover a scenario with Varoon Raja of Girls Chase Podcast fame.
In this instance, Varoon was out to visit in California when he met a girl and really hit it off with her, only for her to text him later to reschedule their date.
But he only had a limited amount of time in town, and here was this girl tossing him the half-flake. So he came to me to brainstorm what to do next.
Here’s the video:
In this video, I tell you how my perspectives on women have changed over the 10 years I have been meeting and picking up women. I also point out some of the ways beginners think about picking up girls that aren’t always the most helpful, and share with you some alternate mindsets you can use when you go out to meet girls:
This is our very first Girls Chase video, with my long-awaited commentary on a thread from one of our forum posters on how to go about kissing girls alone in your place. Here’s the video:
Hello everyone! Apologies for the delay since my last article; things have been pretty crazy lately. I have been looking through the forums recently and found my favorite thing in the world: a pattern between your sticking points.
The reason I love these so much is that, when I see a lot of people making the exact same mistake, it gives me hope that one small tweak to your perspective and behavior is all it will take for LOTS of you to stop dropping the ball and start getting laid instead.
Today’s article will focus on something that has been coming up a lot lately. When you guys type the sticking point into the forums, it usually sounds something like this...
“She showed me a lot of sexual interest, so I took her on a great date and then afterwards, she rejected me!”
“She told me she wanted to have sex, so we got a drink at a bar and started making out, but then she refused to come home with me afterward!”
I realized that this is not something that I see talked about, almost ever, and am here today to shine some gloriously seductive light upon why this keeps happening to people. It certainly happened to me a lot back in the day, and so I’ve had to put myself back in somewhat of a “beginner’s mindset” in order to really make sense of what is happening here.
Note from Chase: this is a guest post from Drexel Scott, a frequent contributor to Girls Chase (you can see the rest of his articles here). In this guest post, he responds to a question from a reader about how
This is the first article in a two-part series about the importance of Target Selection. This first article talks about Target Selection as it relates to sleeping with new women; the second, Target Selection when it comes to relationship potential, as well as which type of relationship a girl is a fit for with you (FB, FWB, MLTR, LTR, OLTR).
As you'll discover in the next article, not all women are built equal and some are simply poor candidates for certain roles in your life.
Today we will discuss why it's important to choose targets wisely when hunting for new sex partners. The reason for this is simple: it is a giant waste of time to pursue women who are not interested or available. It will never "work", and even if you end up sleeping with such a woman, it will come at great expense to you and will not work out the way you want it to.
First, let's define the terms "interested", "available", and "interested and available".
I have never written an article like this before, so bear with me. It is going to be half Field Report from Tinder and half explanation. I will be quoting the conversation I had with “Sarah” in full, as well as detailing parts of her Tinder profile because the contrast you will soon see is what I truly wish to highlight today.
This article is aimed at the guys who are still learning the true nature of female humans, which is as simple as the true nature of all other female primates. This may be a bit of a red pill article for you – and I truly hope and intend that this is the case. I chose in the end not to sleep with the girl, for reasons you will see later, but that takes nothing away from the value of what follows.
I will post bits of the conversation in regular font, with my comments below in bold where necessary.
But first, the relevant parts of her Tinder profile:
“I am absolutely a hopeless romantic. I’m trying to find my future husband on tinder... I am a mother of an angel... I’m looking for my man, my lad, my soulmate, my best friend; nothing less than that, however, Jesus is my main man.”
She is, obviously, portraying herself as a good Christian girl who just wants to settle down with a good man. While it may be tempting to believe the things a woman says, usually it is a smokescreen meant to separate Providers from Lovers. That is a topic worth studying in itself; one that has been written about on this website before and is also a featured chapter in my book.
Good day, gentlemen. Today, I’m here to tell you about something profoundly simple yet tortuously difficult for some. Let me ask you something… what if I told you there’s one particular word in the English language that will get you more of what you want than entire essays of other words?
That with this one magical word, you can assert your boundaries, display your standards, and become a stronger man all at the same time?
You would probably think that I’m crazy… and most likely also want to know more! First I will tell you the word, and then we will delve into its dynamics.
The Magic Word is…