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Girls Who Sense Your Intentions and Don't Want You Anymore

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A woman senses you only want to hook up with her, and closes herself off to you. Why’d it happen – and how do you prevent this ‘closing off’?

On an article from about half a year ago, Art commented:

Has anyone noticed how women can sense if you don’t foresee a future relationship and put their guard up/ auto-reject? And then the women you DO want to become intimate with can sense a ‘strings-attached’ neediness, causing an imbalance? I’d love to get some insight on balancing attainability when being handsome yet shy. I get all kinds of signs from women that I’m excited to unlock, yet they can tell if it’s “real” or not very quickly and move on if the vibe isn’t real.

It's a common scenario. A girl who liked you before, who realizes you don't want her for what she wants or might want with you, and auto-rejects.

Odds are you've seen this plenty. You start to talk to a girl, she's into you, but you realize you don't want anything long-term with her. All of a sudden it's as if she read your mind, and she grows frigid. The magic fades, and she makes her exit.

This is frustrating when you're on a notch hunt. You want to get more women in bed, raise your experience level, and have fun... but you don't necessarily want to commit to every girl who finds her way into your bed.

Yet girls keep realizing it, and keep going cold to you. Is there a way to stop this happening?

Chase AmanteAbout the Author: Chase Amante

Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone. So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating. After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends (plus plenty of failures along the way), he launched this website. He will teach you everything he knows about girls in one single program in his Mastery Package.


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Nightowl212's picture

Hey Chase, I had sex with a married woman in a small party after we both got drunk. She texted me the next day asking me what happened and saying that she didnt remember. She seemed cool about it, just telling me how she was trying to get over the hangover. We never texted each other after that day, and its been a few months since this incident happened. I looked her up on facebook a few weeks later and one of her posts said, "theres no place id rather be than with my husband." Im pretty sure its over but I just want to know what went wrong. Is it because I underperformed in the sack, or did she just regret cheating altogether, or another reason I dont know of? Is there a way to bring her out again? Im sure she was planning on cheating at the party because her vagina and ass were freshly shaved when I saw them.

Hope to read your response soon, thanks.

SZ's picture

1. Aren't those girls with tattoos and abusive pasts the crazy girls we should avoid all together ? I forgot.

Is it OK to sleep with women like this and ditch them? Wouldn't they go crazy if we hit and quit?

2. What are some types of women men shouldn't sleep with at all? No matter what.

3. Do you think it's childish to care about notch count as an older dude? Should it be looked more as a necessity in order to get better with women that men do need to raise their notch count?

SZ's picture

I forgot to add. Where do we find good lower educated women at? I don't like a woman with too much education or too much of a professional career. I'm fine with bachelor's. I don't want a hoodrat or anything, but I don't want a woman who feels she needs to outdo her man and is fine being a woman.

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